It is important when we see our own lives and feel that we are in need of a desperate change, but it is disappointing when our friends sees our lives as a waste of time. As if our friendship has been pointless because we lack the successfulness our friends believe we should have achieved. It could be said that our friends care for us and only wants the best. In doing so, tearing us down to build us up. It is a challenge to be a friend, to like our friends even if we do not like what they do. To support them when they are down and to love them when they are happy, even if their happiness causes you pain. That word "Friend" is indeed a funny word. Because friend isn't like family, family you are stuck with but friends may leave, move on, or fade away. Sometimes we call our friends family, they are people we loved the most, maybe more then or real family. They are there when no one eles wanted to be, when the world has left us behind, when our own family had moved our picture off the shelves and hid them in sock drawers. We are able to forgives friends we once called family, but we can never forgive friends we never called.